FUN? I guess I never considered crying and sobbing fun. But that's just me. To each his own.

by Testing Tina on 2005 Nov 9 - 17:17 | reply to this comment Not fun? It may not be fun, but could still be wonderful. It all depends on the context, doesn't it? I am quite sure, for example, that when she is crying and sobbing in a film, the actress is having fun, or if not fun, she is thoroughly enjoying it. If she found it °»not fun°… she would not be an actress.

Similarly, if your preferred sort of relationship is one involving being spanked and beaten, to say that the spanking and beating is °»not fun°… in the sense that crying and sobbing are prima facie °»not fun°… is a bit disingenuous. If you really thought it °»not fun°… you would not choose that sort of relationship. Those who genuinely believe it is °»not fun°… would experience it as being abusive. But thousands of women who say that it is °»not fun°… positively prefer it nevertheless, and thousands of others wait for ever in the hope of finding a man who will beat and spank them, rather than settling for a relationship with a man who doesn't do that. For such women to claim that it is °»not fun°… is a bit silly, don't you think?

by Sarah Cavendish on 2005 Nov 9 - 19:05 | reply to this comment Re: Not Fun? Sarah, I think you are running up against another form of "it's only real if it isn't about fun."

There are times when I want an emotional release and a scene with spanking and scolding will get me to the point of crying. That is exactly what I want and need at that moment. I don't know if I'd define it as fun but I would define it as satisfying and a positive experience.


by a Taken In Hand reader on 2005 Nov 10 - 00:30 | reply to this comment Re: Fun I don`t want my husband to dominate me because it`s fun or because it sexually turns me on. Sure there are times where it does, but it`s also for lots of other reasons. I`m not married for only fun and sexual reasons either.[]=<a+href=[];jsessionid=AB87182D9FD51D8642BCCEF8A2C75064?p_p_id=36&p_p_lifecycle=0&p_p_state=pop_up&p_p_mode=view&36_struts_action=%2Fwiki%2Fsearch&36_redirect=%2Fweb%2Fguest%2Fwelcome%2F-%2Fwiki%2FMain%2Fsporttoto%2Fpop_up%3Fp_r_p_185834411_title%3Dsporttoto&36_nodeId=39521&,1565515,238211572,435508400,111277757&l1=,cntelligence,2014-10-27,cta_pdf,Bain:%20Global%20Luxury%20Market%20Shows%20Steady%20Growth&url=;redirect=;redirect=;redirect=,0,&RecordNumber=26292&TagNumber=856&;adv=11282204253021;ec=11282204490079;c.a=23559052;p.a=268252486;a.a=458453941;s.a=5902899;idfa=;idfa_lat=;aaid=;aaid_lat=;cache=;qpb=1;?h=,4&select=AND;;0;;EQ;;APPROVED%20CONCRETE%20PLANTS%20&sort=2&URL=,42657625&_dad=portal&_schema=PORTAL&id=12879&;;;[]=<a+href=[];jsessionid=AB87182D9FD51D8642BCCEF8A2C75064?p_p_id=36&p_p_lifecycle=0&p_p_state=pop_up&p_p_mode=view&36_struts_action=%2Fwiki%2Fsearch&36_redirect=%2Fweb%2Fguest%2Fwelcome%2F-%2Fwiki%2FMain%2Fsporttoto%2Fpop_up%3Fp_r_p_185834411_title%3Dsporttoto&36_nodeId=39521&,1565515,238211572,435508400,111277757&l1=,cntelligence,2014-10-27,cta_pdf,Bain:%20Global%20Luxury%20Market%20Shows%20Steady%20Growth&url=;redirect=;redirect=;redirect=,0,&RecordNumber=26292&TagNumber=856&;adv=11282204253021;ec=11282204490079;c.a=23559052;p.a=268252486;a.a=458453941;s.a=5902899;idfa=;idfa_lat=;aaid=;aaid_lat=;cache=;qpb=1;?h=,4&select=AND;;0;;EQ;;APPROVED%20CONCRETE%20PLANTS%20&sort=2&URL=*frf/showresource?linkid=vincewqnh.com362780669&°Ŗ28°Ŗ92734&url=;redirect= https://sportstoto7.com;query=